We run local courses with small groups
in East Tamaki, Auckland.

Next Course Dates:
Saturday, 1 December 2018
(Only 2 spots available - book soon!)

Saturday, 2 February 2019

Saturday, 2 March 2019

"A lot of the key things that could one day have lead to a relationship breakdown can be discovered and resolved before we even get married."

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But we've lived together for ages...

One of the biggest mistakes is to think that nothing will change once we are married, especially for those of us who already lived together beforehand. 

When we are dating, and potentially living together, sure, we talk about some big stuff like maybe having kids one day, but we don't really dig into the key things we need to. Why? Because often we don't want to pre-empt a serious conversation, as if marriage is already a done deal, before someone has even had the chance to pop the question! 

Then once they have, we're basking in our engaged status, we're planning the wedding, we're dealing with family politics. We never get around to the internal meeting of minds, required to start a new team unit, that's designed to last forever.

Yeah well we're not into touchy feely stuff...

If there's a barrier to doing one of these courses, it's often the perception you will talk all day about your feelings and emotions. Total rubbish! Anyway, feelings and emotions are vital, but they get us into trouble too.

We talk about fun stuff like what would you do with unlimited millions of dollars. We focus on problem solving and communication tools. We train how to be objective with each other to get through issues, and how to try and reduce the emotion so we can work on the problem.

We also help you sort the mundane things, family dynamics, and other things which commonly lead to arguments later but which you never thought of before.

We guarantee both of you will find the course well worth your time, and money. Or ask us for your money back, no questions asked!

Schedule & Pricing

Each course is an 8-hour day class from 9am - 5pm.


  • Entry to the only professional non-religious pre-marriage course in New Zealand
  • Custom designed discussion / discovery exercises
  • Morning and afternoon tea
  • Workbooks and workshop materials
  • Instruction from two highly experienced husband and wife facilitators
  • A high proportion of private couple discussion time
  • LIFE ACCESS to alumni-only advice and marriage materials.

An outline of the topics:
  1. Marriage By Design: Future Planning
  2. Marriage Expectations: Exploring your Subconscious Beliefs
  3. The Marriage Zone: Building Intimacy for Bullet Proofing
  4. Money Priorities: A Common Stress Area
  5. Problem Solving and Dealing With Differences

Pricing: $247 per couple (only $123.50 p.p. for 8 hrs)
Out of all your wedding expenses, this is the ONLY amount you'll probably spend that directly and significantly increases your potential for a better than average marriage.

Every couple, including those with a great relationship when engaged, is at risk of divorce. That is how powerful our subconscious expectations are and how limited our toolsets usually are for resolving complex relationship issues. Invest one day now, and reduce your risk of divorce from around 50% to as little as 2% (based on 2005 research by R. Oglesby, Center for Youth & Family Ministry USA).

Read testimonials from others who have completed the course here.

Book online here to give your marriage the best start possible!